Patient Turns Gratitude Into Handmade Gifts for Babies and Families

Patient Turns Gratitude Into Handmade Gifts for Babies and Families

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Key Takeaways:

• Vicki Vogel has donated handmade hats, blankets, booties and other baby items to OhioHealth Marion General Hospital for years.
• Her gifts are distributed to families in the hospital's labor and delivery unit, including those with premature babies and those experiencing loss.
• Vicki began making the gifts as a way to thank David Foulk, MD for the care she received over more than four decades.

Before a newborn ever wears one of Vicki Vogel's handmade hats, the gift has already been made with intention and love.

For years, Vicki has crocheted hats, blankets, booties and other keepsakes for babies and families at OhioHealth Marion General Hospital. Her creations are shared with families in the hospital's labor and delivery unit, including parents of premature babies and those experiencing the loss of a child.

"With each stitch, I'm praying for the child that gets it," Vicki said. "Just each stitch, each stitch."

The idea began as a way for Vicki to give back after years of gratitude for the care she received from David Foulk, MD, OB/GYN and her OhioHealth providers. More than four decades ago, Dr. Foulk became her physician, and Vicki wanted to find a meaningful way to express her appreciation.

"I just wanted to do something to express thanks," Vicki said. "Forty-one years ago, I became his patient, and he did something surgical that got me back living. How do you repay something like that?"

Vicki asked her sister, a longtime neonatal nurse, what she could do that would be meaningful and useful.

"She didn't even hesitate," Vicki said. "She said, 'Do this. Make baby things, and he'll give them to people. You're blessing him, and you're blessing the babies.'"

Since then, Vicki has filled shopping bags with handmade treasures that Dr. Foulk and the OB/GYN team deliver to labor and delivery. Nurses provide the gifts to families, allowing parents to choose a hat or blanket they love for their newborn.

One of Vicki's most meaningful gifts was created for Ashley Boldman, surgical coordinator at the OB/GYN office.

When Ashley was pregnant with her son, she shared with Vicki that she had previously lost a daughter due to congenital heart and kidney defects. That experience played a role in Ashley's decision to work in OB/GYN and support other families experiencing loss.

Vicki was moved by her story and just a week later, Ashley received a special handmade gift from Vicki: a quilt, booties and bibs for her son. The red and blue quilt was designed for a baby boy, but Vicki added one small pink teddy bear in the center as a reminder of his little sister.

"She made sure that someone who wasn't even born yet would never forget someone he never met," Ashley said. "That was amazing to me."

She said the gift brought both tears and comfort.

"You always worry that someone's going to forget the people that you lose," she said. "The fact that someone took the time to remember someone so special to me and make sure that my son had a piece of his sister was incredible."

Although Vicki's gifts have touched many, she typically does not meet the families who receive her creations.

"I prefer not to," Vicki said. "Because it's so much more fun. I like envisioning Dr. Foulk doing it."

Each handmade gift carries Vicki's hope that families feel cared for.

"Especially the lost ones," she said. "I want them to feel comfort."

Dr. Foulk said Vicki's generosity reflects who she is.

"She's amazing," he said. "I know she doesn't want recognition, but I thought it was time she got some. She's an accomplished, gifted and talented artist, seamstress, needle worker, baker, chef and has a poetic flare with words. She's a strong Christian with a generous servant's heart."

And for Vicki, the reason behind the work is simple.

"I guess I want to make the Lord proud of me when I finally get home," she said. "I just want to hear, 'well done.'"

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