Providence high schoolers find connection, guidance, confidence through dedicated mentors at Brown

Brown Collegiate Scholars Program Director Nick Figueroa said that kind of support can shape how students see themselves.

"I know firsthand how powerful mentorship can be," Figueroa said. "If we can give young people someone to talk to, someone to exchange ideas with - someone who believes in them before they believe in themselves - that changes everything."

Making a match

To encourage early connection, matches are based on factors including interests, hobbies, personality traits and communication styles. Mentors are often paired with students who share similar academic or career aspirations. Both mentors and mentees complete questionnaires, and mentors are interviewed by program leaders as part of the selection process.

Olivia Chaves, curriculum and student support manager for the Brown Collegiate Scholars Program, said the goal is to create relationships that boost students' interests and growth.

"Matching isn't just about what students say they want in a mentor," Chaves said. "It's also about what they may need. A student who struggles with organization, for example, might benefit from someone with a more structured approach. We try to balance all of those factors when making matches."

MENTOR Rhode Island partners with the Brown Collegiate Scholars Program to train Brown faculty and staff members in evidence-based mentoring practices, including communication, relationship-building and boundary-setting. Mentors also follow a monthly curriculum focused on social-emotional learning topics such as decision-making, overcoming obstacles and goal-setting.

Pairings are revealed during Mentor Match Day, a kickoff event that brings together students, families and mentors to share a meal, learn about the program and begin getting to know one another.

Upon meeting, Lilavois said he and Leonardo first bonded over the comic book character Batman.

"We started talking about why we both like Batman," Lilavois said. "As we broke the character down, I started to see the values Adrian connected with, and from there, the conversations grew naturally."

More than a year later, the pair still connect over music, movies and books. Leonardo said he appreciates having another trusted adult in his life.

"What really strengthened our connection was when I started asking him about situations I was dealing with and what he would do," Leonardo said. "If something came up at school, I'd ask how he would handle it. That helped us build a bond and now, I look forward to meeting every month."

Conversations with his mentor have helped Leonardo recognize leadership qualities he hadn't seen in himself, including after he successfully managed a difficult group project at school.

"He told his classmate, 'If we do it this way, we could be the first team to finish and maybe even come in first place,'" Lilavois said. "What stood out was how thoughtfully he handled it. I told him, 'That's leadership.' He was surprised, but I pointed out that what he did in that situation was exactly what a leader does."