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What these BU Seniors Would Tell Their Freshman Year Self

What these BU Seniors Would Tell Their Freshman Year Self

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What these BU Seniors Would Tell Their Freshman Year Self

Lessons on friendships, pressure, growth, and making the most of four years on Comm Ave.

May 9, 2026
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By senior year, everything at Boston University feels a bit different: the campus, the routines, and even the version of yourself walking across Commonwealth Avenue. Looking back, there are lessons you only fully understand after experiencing the late-night deadlines, class changes, unexpected friendships, and moments that didn't go as planned. We asked a few BU seniors to reflect on their freshman selves and share what they wish they had known back then: advice, reassurance, and perspective they would give if they could.

Kenna LaFitte (COM'26)

If I had to do it all over again, I would remind myself to give time and grace. Starting college can feel overwhelming, especially when you are moving more than 3,000 miles away from home (I call California home). Being in such a social media-dominated generation, it is easy to think that everyone has found their best friends when, in actuality, they are also trying to find their footing. It's completely okay to go to events by yourself, explore the city on your own, and step outside your comfort zone. No one is judging you for doing things alone, especially during your freshman year.

I would also tell myself that finding your "people" takes time. Friendships in college take time, and that's okay. It's not a linear path, and sometimes the best friendships come when you least expect them. Be patient with yourself and the process!

Crystal Yormick (COM'26)

First and foremost, I'd give myself a big hug. College can feel overwhelming and lonely at times, and sometimes you just need to find comfort in the chaos and uncertainty. Meeting people and establishing your place takes time, and that's okay! Get involved, put yourself out there, and say hi to everyone you meet; I can guarantee you will see them on Comm Ave.

I would also tell myself to learn my limits. There are so many opportunities at BU, and I would encourage anyone to take advantage of as many as they can! However, we all have boundaries, and it's important to learn what those are. It can sometimes feel like everyone is doing everything, but it's better to focus on a few activities. This way, you can ensure you're putting your best foot forward and spending your time wisely. College is so special, so push yourself, but make sure you enjoy where you are while you're there.

Sangmin Song (COM'26)

If I could talk to my freshman-year self, I'd tell him one simple thing: go to class.

It sounds obvious, but it's easy to convince yourself otherwise. You skip once because you're tired, then again because you're busy, and before long, it starts to feel normal. You tell yourself you'll catch up later, that you can handle it on your own. But that confidence quietly turns into a habit, and the consequences show up when it's already too late.

College life gives you a lot of freedom, and with that comes full responsibility for how you use your time. What I didn't realize early enough is that every class has value, even the ones that don't seem exciting at first. Showing up is the baseline. It's where engagement starts, where connections happen, and where small moments add up. If you want to get the most out of college, it begins with simply being there.

Looking back, most seniors agree that freshman year feels a lot bigger when you are in it than it does later on. The things that once felt overwhelming usually work themselves out over time. If there is one thing these seniors would want younger students to know, it is to give themselves a little more grace, try new things, and stop worrying so much about having everything figured out right away.

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