Volleyball Standout Excels After Overcoming Challenges

Volleyball Standout Excels After Overcoming Challenges

By Samantha Boden

Ever since student-athlete Jada Blake was 6 years old, the volleyball court had been her sanctuary. Photo by Luna Canham

Ever since Cal State San Marcos student-athlete Jada Blake was 6 years old, the volleyball court had been her sanctuary - a place where family issues and everyday struggles could fade into the background, leaving just her and the game. That was, until she reached her freshman year of high school.

Quickly, the court she loved so much became a source of distress, and Blake found herself faced with her biggest opponent yet: depression.

"I stopped caring about volleyball," Blake said. "I even ended up not finishing club that year. I was just going through a lot mentally and couldn't continue having that pressure on my shoulders."

Blake began skipping school to cope with her loss of motivation and overwhelming anxiety. She no longer had the desire to connect with her peers and spent most of her time isolated from loved ones. As Blake disappeared inside of herself, she found it increasingly difficult to face the outside world.

"My house was walking distance from school, so my mom would drop me off and I would just walk back home once she was at work," Blake said. "I didn't want to be at school. I knew I would just go to the bathroom and cry."

Blake was raised in a single-parent household. Her father, who died in July 2023, was not in the picture due to addiction issues, so Blake grew up surrounded by her mom, older sister and younger brother. Having only each other to rely on, they became a team, always ready to support one another.

As Blake's streak of unexcused absences continued to grow, her mom learned of the situation from Blake's high school counselor. Taken aback by her daughter acting so out of character, she knew it was time to intervene.

"Jada's freshman year was a struggle," said Brianna Becker, Blake's mom. "I would get that automated phone call every day at 4 p.m. saying your child missed class. There were even times I left work early and would find her at home. So, I started staying at home more and going into work late. Anything I could to make sure she went to school.

"As a young single mom with no child support, it was just us most of the time. I feel like I grew up with them. I always want my kids to be open with me, and I feel like they can come to me about anything in the world. If there's something I can't do for them, we'll figure it out together."

Blake's first year of high school progressed, and with the help of her family, she started to throw herself back into school and social activities. As she regained a sense of motivation, she felt ready to resume her athletic pursuits as well. Her sophomore year, she kickstarted a long-standing reunion with the court and concluded the last three years of her high school sports career on a high, playing on varsity and being a candidate for league player of the year.

Unfortunately, when it came time to explore colleges, her volleyball recruiting process was derailed by the pandemic. During such a time of uncertainty, it was practical for Blake to stay with family and attend community college in her hometown of Phoenix. There, she gained a strong foothold on her academics and started to feel confident in her schoolwork.

"In high school, academics didn't come naturally to me," Blake said. "I always felt discouraged in that realm. I knew that I wanted to go to college, and while my sister had academic scholarships that were taking her there, I didn't have that. I only had volleyball, and I had left it for a time.

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"You don't realize when you're super young that just one semester of making the wrong decisions and not prioritizing the right things can throw a lot of opportunities down the drain. My sophomore, junior and senior year were mainly just focused on fixing my freshman year.

"But I'm actually very happy that I started with community college because it helped me with the transition from high school to university. Those two years in junior college taught me so much about how I could excel as a first-generation student athlete. In fact, that first semester after the pandemic was my first semester ever getting straight A's."

When it came time for Blake to transfer to a four-year college, she was introduced to CSUSM's head volleyball coach, Andrea Leonard. It felt like an instant connection between the two, and Blake knew she had found the school for her. As she made the plunge and moved to California last fall, she felt like she could finally breathe. She had earned her scholarship and could now play volleyball while pursuing a bachelor's degree in communication.

Blake's freshman year of high school was no longer a regretful memory, but a marker of her resilience and ability to overcome any challenge thrown her way.

"I knew Jada was going to be an impactful player in our program," Leonard said. "She really embodies all the core values that we look for, someone who is resilient, accountable and driven. She has this energy that bounces off the team and brings joy to everyone around her."

Blake lives with her great aunt, a local volleyball legend in the San Diego area, and her great aunt's daughter, a fellow volleyball player. Although she was initially anxious about moving away from her family and falling back into old habits, Blake found a second home, dubbed "the volleyball house," where she is excitedly taking on this new journey and staying on top of her volleyball and academic commitments.

After her freshman year, Blake learned the importance of seeking outside help when needed. She now stays on top of her mental health by meeting with a therapist and talking with her family every day. They are her biggest supporters and regularly make the six-hour drive to San Marcos to watch her games. Knowing she can always count on her family to be by her side, Blake feels like she can overcome any barrier that stands in her path, mental or physical.

"I just love watching her play," Becker said. "I'm so proud of her and so happy that she's in the position that she is in now. Seeing how far she has come and how things have turned around for her - it makes me emotional. At the end of the day, there's going to be things in life that knock you down, but you have to pick yourself back up and fight for something that you are truly passionate about. And she did. And she has so much more to look forward to."

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